Brake All the Rules To Be Someone to Understand

Do you remember your experiences with selecting a puppy when you were a child? Our family always had a dog, so I remember several such occasions and they included someone to understand. This is a story I was told a while back about one such memory that we would like to share:
someone to understand
The little boy had someone to understand.
I believe that you can get everything in life you want …
if you will just help enough other people get what they want.
–  Zig Zigler
A farmer had some puppies he needed to sell.
He painted a sign advertising the 4 pups and set about nailing it to a post on the edge of his yard. As he was driving the last nail into the post, he felt a tug on his overalls. He looked down into the eyes of a little boy.

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Mister, he said, I want to buy one of your puppies.
Well, said the farmer, as he rubbed the sweat off the back of his neck, these puppies come from fine parents and cost a good deal of money.
The boy dropped his head for a moment.
Then reaching deep into his pocket, he pulled out a handful of change and held it up to the farmer.
I’ve got thirty-nine cents. Is that enough to take a look?


Sure, said the farmer. And with that he let out a whistle. Here, Dolly!  he called.
Out from the doghouse and down the ramp ran Dolly followed by four little balls of fur.
The little boy pressed his face against the chain link fence. His eyes danced with delight. As the dogs made their way to the fence, the little boy noticed something else stirring inside the doghouse.
Slowly another little ball appeared this one noticeably smaller. Down the ramp it slid. Then in a somewhat awkward manner, the little pup began hobbling toward the others, doing its best to catch up.
I want that one, the little boy said, pointing to the runt. The farmer knelt down at the boy’s side and said, Son, you don’t want that puppy. He will never be able to run and play with you like these other dogs would.


With that the little boy stepped back from the fence, reached down, and began rolling up one leg of his trousers.
In doing so he revealed a steel brace running down both sides of his leg attaching itself to a specially made shoe.
To understand someone's feelings
To understand someone’s feelings.
Looking back up at the farmer, he said, You see sir, I don’t run too well myself, and he will need someone to understand.
With tears in his eyes, the farmer reached down and picked up the little pup.
Holding it carefully he handed it to the little boy.
What does it mean to understand someone
What does it mean to understand someone.
How much? asked the little boy. No charge, answered the farmer, There’s no charge for love.
The world is full of people who need someone to understand …
My takeaway from this story?
Do what you can, with what you have, wherever you happen to be …
Remember … sometimes reality is too complex. Stories do a good job of giving meaning that can be remembered.
Would you like another interesting story? Never Give Up Your Dreams
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More inspirational stories from Digital Spark Marketing’s Library:
A Story About Living as Told by a Six Year Old Boy
Surprising Story Lessons on Making a Difference
 
Mike Schoultz is a digital marketing and customer service expert. With 48 years of business experience, he consults on and writes about topics to help improve the performance of small business. Find him on G+FacebookTwitter, Digital Spark Marketing, and LinkedIn.
 

The Story of the Marbles and People Making a Difference

Pericles is known for the quote: What you leave behind is not what is engraved in stone monuments, but what is woven into the lives of others. He knew the importance of people making a difference.
People making a difference and who connect emotionally start with a simple smile, it is not rocket science. It is only real when it is shared, and you can’t do too much sharing.
Do you sometimes wonder how much-unseen impact your actions and life is having on others?
I read a story on this subject along the way in my career and would like to share it with this community.
The story is told of a man at a local grocery store. This man noticed a small boy, ragged but clean, who he described as hungrily appraising a basket of freshly picked green peas.
The man was looking over some of the new fresh produce on his way out when he overheard the conversation between the store owner and the ragged boy.
story of the marbles
A story of the marbles.
Hello Barry, how are you today?
 
The hungry boy replied Hello Mr. Miller, Fine, thank you. Jus’ admirin’ them peas… sure look good.
 
Each time the little boy would come to the store the conversation would have a similar tone. He would ask him how he was doing and how his mom was. She was sick, and they just didn’t have much at home. Yet this hungry young boy’s attention was always on the fresh produce.
Mr. Miller would always ask if Barry would like to take some home. Barry would reply  No, Sir. Got nuthin’ to pay for them with.
 
And Mr. Miller would say, Well, what have you to trade me for some of those peas?
Barry would say, All I got is my prize marble here.
 
Is that right? Let me see it. Mr. Miller would take a careful look at it and compliment the boy on his prized marble. Mr. Miller would say, Well, the only thing is this one is blue, and I sort of go for red. Do you have a red one at home?  
 
The little boy would say not exactly, but he had one sort of like it.
Mr. Miller would then send the boy home with the marble and peas and asked him to bring the red marble back when he found it.
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Mrs. Miller, the store owners wife came back to help the man looking at the produce with an ear turned towards the conversation of the store owner and this little boy. With a smile she said, There are two other boys like him in our community. All three are very poor. Jim (Mr. Miller) just loves to bargain with them for peas, apples, tomatoes, or whatever. When they come back with red marbles he decides he doesn’t like red marbles and sends them back with a bag of produce searching for another color.
 
Years later Mr. Miller had passed away. The man who had witnessed his kind acts happened to be in town the night of his viewing. The friends he was visiting wanted to attend and this man decided to join them.
As they arrived and waited in line, offering condolences to the family of this generous man, ahead of them in line were three finely dressed men. One was in an Army uniform and the other two in nice dark suits with white shirts. All were very professional looking.
The three young men approached Mrs. Miller, standing composed and smiling by her husband’s casket. Each of the young men hugged her and then kissed her on the cheek. They spoke briefly with her and moved on to the casket. Her light blue misty eyes followed them one by one, as each young man stopped briefly and placed his own warm hand over the cold pale hand in the casket. Each left the mortuary wiping his eyes in recognizable sorrow.
The man’s turn came to meet Mrs. Miller. He reminded her of the story she told him so long ago about her husband’s generous bargaining with the marbles. With her eyes glistening, she took the man’s hand and led him to the casket. Those three young men who just left were the boys I told you about, she said. They just told me how they appreciated the things Jim ‘traded’ them. Now, at last, when Jim could not change his mind about color or size… they came to pay their debt.
 
Mrs. Miller said: We’ve never had a great deal of the wealth of this world, but right now, Jim would consider himself the richest man in Idaho.
 
With loving gentleness, she lifted the lifeless fingers of her deceased husband.
Resting underneath were three exquisitely shined red marbles.
Another great story: The Story of Tank the Dog or Is It, Reggie?
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My takeaway from this story?
Do what you can, with what you have, where you are … and a difference will be made.  
 
 
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More inspirational stories from Digital Spark Marketing’s Library:
A Story About Living as Told by a Six-Year-Old Boy
Great Stories and Storytelling Can Have a Very Healing Influence
Never Give Up Your Dreams
Surprising Story Lessons on Making a Difference
 
Mike Schoultz is a digital marketing and customer service expert. With 48 years of business experience, he consults on and writes about topics to help improve the performance of small business. Find him on G+FacebookTwitter, Digital Spark Marketing, and LinkedIn.