Good Leader: 17 Leadership Lessons from 40 Years of Experience

I have many leadership lessons learned in my years in the military (6 years) and business (35 years). Being a good leader is a lifelong learning process. You are never done learning. Every good leader always looks for ways to improve the ability to improve their leadership qualities and attributes. Lessons learned are a great source of learning.

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Good leader.

 

Before I tell you what I have learned about leadership, let me first tell you a story. It is a story about a scorpion and a frog.

 

Once upon a time a scorpion looked around at the mountain where he lived and decided that he wanted a change. So he set out on a journey through the forests and hills. He climbed over rocks and under vines and kept going until he reached a river.

 

The river was wide and swift, and the scorpion stopped to reconsider the situation. He couldn’t see any way across. So he ran upriver and then checked downriver, all the while thinking that he might have to turn back.

 


Suddenly, he saw a frog sitting in the rushes by the bank of the stream on the other side of the river. He decided to ask the frog for help getting across the stream.

 

“Hellooo Mr. Frog!” called the scorpion across the water, “Would you be so kind as to give me a ride on your back across the river?”

 

“Well now, Mr. Scorpion! How do I know that if I try to help you, you won’t try to kill me?” asked the frog hesitantly.

 

“Because,” the scorpion replied, “If I try to kill you, then I would die too, for you see I cannot swim!”

 

Now this seemed to make sense to the frog. But he asked. “What about when I get close to the bank? You could still try to kill me and get back to the shore!”

 


“This is true,” agreed the scorpion, “But then I wouldn’t be able to get to the other side of the river!”

 

“Alright then…how do I know you won’t just wait till we get to the other side and THEN kill me?” said the frog.

 

“Ahh…,” crooned the scorpion, “Because you see, once you’ve taken me to the other side of this river, I will be so grateful for your help, that it would hardly be fair to reward you with death, now would it?!”

 

So the frog agreed to take the scorpion across the river. He swam over to the bank and settled himself near the mud to pick up his passenger. The scorpion crawled onto the frog’s back, his sharp claws prickling into the frog’s soft hide, and the frog slid into the river. The muddy water swirled around them, but the frog stayed near the surface so the scorpion would not drown. He kicked strongly through the first half of the stream, his flippers paddling wildly against the current.

 

Halfway across the river, the frog suddenly felt a sharp sting on his back and, out of the corner of his eye, saw the scorpion remove his stinger from the frog’s back. A deadening numbness began to creep into his limbs.

 

“You fool!” croaked the frog, “Now we shall both die! Why on earth did you do that?”

 

The scorpion shrugged, and did a little jig on the drownings frog’s back. “I could not help myself. It is my nature.”

 

Then they both sank into the muddy waters of the swiftly flowing river…

Well, I guess scorpions are going to be scorpions.

And people are always going to act according to human nature.

We can try to fight it and resist it, but at the end of the day, people are going to be people.

And if you understand human nature, it’s going to be a lot easier for you to make it in this business.

So all leaders must understand the story of the frog and the scorpion.

 

If you read ten books on leadership, you could easily build a checklist of 50 or more leadership qualities and attributes. The following leadership lessons represent my favorites from my years. It represents those leadership lessons that I would most like to remember:

 

Good leader … put your people first

This is an important principle that is ingrained into most military officers but is sadly often lacking in civilian managers.  Mentorship is important but moreover, doing whatever you can to advance the careers of your subordinates should be one of your prime duties.

 

Leadership qualities list … not about you

Many of us want to be effective leaders … ones that can make a difference. But that doesn’t happen by talking about it or self-marketing. It takes the time to build connections, by take a genuine interest in people. In true leadership situations, listening comes first.

 

Perhaps the worst personal trait I’ve personally observed is ego. We all have an ego, but the ego I’m talking about is the ‘super-ego’ that dominates.  I’ve found if a leader is really good at what they do, they won’t have to tell others about it.

 

Humility

Leaders teach us “Don’t think too highly of yourself.” How can you improve? We are not perfect. Your success is because of many team members’ contributions. Up your leadership game with humility.

 

Leadership lesson plans
Leadership lesson plans.

 

Leadership lesson plans … passion

You only live once. Give it all you got. Be the best so no competitor can keep up. Know your passion and live it. Let it drive you to be the best in your niche.

 

Stress team and teamwork

Do what it takes to make your team more effective and productive. Make each team member focus on putting the team before themselves. Remember, whatever your role is, be a servant to the team and make your teammates better.

 

Have a grand vision

As a leader, you can inspire and motivate your team to tremendous effect by communicating a vision in a clear, straight-forward way.  But don’t think small – raise the bar high.  Shoot for a visionary type goal.  That’s different than a vision to increase the company’s market share by 10% within five years.
 

Speak appreciation

Gratitude must be a constant drum beat of your dialogue. Infuse your conversations with an appreciation of your team’s acumen and determination to improve. Learn to be thankful certainly when there’s great success, but also be thankful for what you’ve learned through the hard times because there’s great wisdom in those experiences.

 

Push and motivate people

A good leader makes sure their team members never stop looking bad until eventually, they look good because they have improved. Push them to be the best they can be. Be the best motivator you can be.

 

Provide structure but encourage improvisation

Provide structure to the team but always encourage everyone to improvise. Inspire them to do what they could not do alone. Show them by example and let other teammates help them do it; that builds a bond that lasts forever.

 

Build relationships and culture

Constantly build relationships with and between the team. It is the foundation of the culture you want to develop. Remember this: Five percent of what we do is to be sure we perform. The other ninety-five percent is to create a culture that leads to the team culture.

 

Continuous improvement and learning

If you’re not doing, you’re not learning. Everybody makes mistakes.  It’s what you do with them that count.

 

Give people opportunity to input

It has to be the team’s game plan, not just the leader’s plan. Ensure you are giving everyone an opportunity for inputs and listen carefully. Do what you can to build a team plan.

 

Adapt your leadership to team

Not all teams are the same, and each requires and responds best to its leadership qualitiesFocus on becoming a good reader of the team and adapt your leadership style to what is needed.

 

Related post: Learning about Shaping the Future from these Leadership Quotes

 

Don’t let failure be fatal

Keep going.  Don’t let setbacks stop you.  Carry your lessons forward, and change your approach as required.  Don’t fear change … it is a fact of life. Failure is not fatal, but often a failure to change can be.

 

lead by example
Lead by example, like this guy.

 

Lead by example

What you do is so much more important than what you say.  As a leader, you should be the hardest worker, the most well-prepared, and the one willing to do all the things no one else wants to do.
 

Develop other leaders

Leaders are measured not just on what they achieve personally but also on what the people they mentored go on to do as leaders in their right. Take pride in people you have developed.

 

Agree to disagree, but don’t be disagreeable

It is all about maintaining a positive attitude all the time, even when times are tough. People can agree to disagree, but need to avoid being disagreeable at all costs.

 

Often leaders who do their job too well end up surrounded by a bunch of “yes-men/women”.  This can have disastrous consequences.

 

The bottom line

 

Remember this simple fact. Does leadership focus on people the best definition of a leader? Someone who helps people succeed. Let your leadership success be your difference maker.

 

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All you get is what you bring to the fight. And that fight gets better every day you learn and apply new ideas.

 

When things are not what you want them to be, what’s most important is your next step. Call today.

 

Test. Learn. Improve. Repeat.

 

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Mike Schoultz is the founder of Digital Spark Marketing, a digital marketing and customer service agency. With 40 years of business experience, he blogs on topics that relate to improving the performance of your business. Find them on G+Twitter, and LinkedIn.  

 

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Leadership Management: 12 Popular Examples of Leader Lessons

We are all ignorant … just about different things. Interesting quote from Will Rogers, yes? Are you a student of the concepts on the best leadership management qualities and attributes?

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What is influential leadership?
Dwight Eisenhower certainly was, wasn’t he? Spot on. I also like to study examples of leadership.
Examples of leadership.
I have been in leadership positions in the military and business world for forty years and I often get asked what it takes to be an effective, influential leader. Dwight Eisenhower was only of many I studied over those many years.
Being such a leader is a lifelong learning process. You are never done learning. Every great leader always looks for ways to improve their ability to improve their leadership qualities and attributes.
Related: How to Create the Best Leadership Accountability
If you read 10 books on leadership, you could easily build a checklist of 50 or more leadership qualities and attributes. It was also most likely include many leadership myths. But more is not necessarily better for the best checklist.
This following list of leader myths represents my favorites that are often described as leadership attributes. How many of these myths do you recognize?
  

Leadership management … everyone can be a leader?

Certainly not true. Many senior managers don’t have the self-knowledge or the required authenticity for leadership. And authenticity and self-knowledge are only 2 of the important skills in the equation.
People must also want to be leaders, and many talented employees are not interested in taking on that responsibility.
Many others prefer to devote more time to other private live interests than to their work, and more time to work than being a boss.

 

great coaches
Not all leaders are great coaches.

Leaders are great coaches

Rarely does this happen? Leaders don’t often have the talent nor time to inspire the troops, impact technical skills, and successfully manage the business.
More typically you see leaders whose strengths lie in their ability to excite others in their vision rather than their coaching talents.
My favorite example of this type of leader would be Steve Jobs.

 

Open and honest relationships

“Because I said so” leadership may work for a child but it doesn’t work with adults. In many cases it creates frustration and confusion, resulting in more infractions and disdain for leadership.
As an alternative, focus on open and honest communication where you can carefully explain why you focus on your objectives and what you are aiming to accomplish.

  

Connecting is all there is

President Lincoln was once asked how long it took him to write the Gettysburg Address. He replied: ‘All my life’.
Lincoln knew who he was and what he stood for and that influenced his entire perspective on life. Most people are the same … they want to know who you are and what you stand for before they follow you.
Leadership is a 2-way agreement.

  

Consistent styles

Gratitude must be a constant drumbeat of your dialogue. Infuse your conversations with an appreciation of your team’s acumen and determination to improve.
Learn to be thankful certainly when there’s great success, but also be thankful for what you’ve learned through the hard times because there’s great wisdom in those experiences.
After you have been knocked down, get up, gain your composure, reflect on why this occurred and make the necessary changes.

 

 People who rise to the top are best leaders

This is certainly not always the case. One of the most persistent misperceptions is that people in leadership positions are leaders.
Often it is the case that people who made it to the top have done so because of political acumen and not because of true leadership skills. What’s more, real leaders are found all over the organization, from the top to the bottom.
Leaders are simply people who have followers, and rank doesn’t have that much to do with it.
All the military organizations have long realized the importance of developing leaders at all levels of the organization.
Leadership Management
Leadership Management.

 

Put people first

Many of us want to be effective leaders … ones that can make a difference.
But that doesn’t happen by talking about it or self-marketing. It takes time to build connections, to take a genuine interest in people.
In true leadership situations, listening comes first.
Perhaps the worst personal trait I’ve personally observed is ego. We all have an ego, but the ego I’m talking about is the ‘superego’ that dominates.
I’ve found if a leader is really good at what they do, they won’t have to tell others about it.
Do what it takes to make your team more effective and productive. Make each team member focus on putting the team before themselves.
Remember, whatever your role is, be a servant to the team and make your teammates better.
 

 Best leaders deliver best results

Not always the case for sure. If results were always a matter of good leadership skills, choosing leaders would certainly easier. But clearly, things are usually not that simple.
Many businesses can often do well with competent management rather than great leadership.
On the flip side, some well-led businesses do not necessarily produce strong results, particularly in the short term.

  

Continuous improvement and learning

Many people who think they are leaders will never acknowledge making errors or mistakes. They don’t realize that if you’re not doing, you’re not learning.
Everybody makes mistakes.  It’s what you do with them that counts.

  

Adapt your leadership to the team

Not all teams are the same and each requires and responds best to its own leadership qualitiesSome professed leaders cannot adapt under any circumstances.
They only have one mode and can’t adapt. No ability to focus on becoming a good reader of the team and adapt a leadership style to what is needed.

 

Limited character and more concerned about reputation

Your reputation will vary.  It’s your character that counts and it’s what you can control.  This myth shows people more concerned with their reputation.
Remember that your reputation is what you are perceived to be, and your character is what you actually are.
Your character is much more important than what you are perceived to be, isn’t it?

  

Working long hours is everything

Keep the reverse of this statement near the top of your leadership priorities. Preach it and definitely live it.
Remember that the best leaders know that balance is everything.
Be balanced … controlled action in all areas of life.

 

Key takeaways

The moral of this story is that many leadership qualities are not that at all. They are only myths and can have an influence on leadership development. Beware.
If these different thoughts are possessed by your current leadership team or your emerging leaders, you should take note of the road ahead.
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Customer engagement improvements are worth the effort.
Which of these leadership myths stand out to you? Do you have any other thoughts of leadership myths worthy of mention? Leave a comment and share your insights.
Need some help in capturing more improvements in your staff’s leadership, teamwork, and collaboration? Creative ideas in running or facilitating a team or leadership workshop?
 
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Call Mike at 607-725-8240.
All you get is what you bring to the fight. And that fight gets better every day you learn and apply new ideas.
When things are not what you want them to be, what’s most important is your next step. Call today.
Test. Learn. Improve. Repeat.
Are you devoting enough energy to innovating your social media strategy?
Do you have a lesson about making your advertising better you can share with this community? Have any questions or comments to add in the section below?
 
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More leadership material from Digital Spark Marketing’s Library:
Leadership Characteristics that Improve Influence
 
 

14 Pepsi Relationship Building Strategies to Create the Perfect One

Given the wealth of information available online, the need to learn the Pepsi relationship building is becoming ever more important. Why? Because today’s consumers are more informed than you can imagine.
Pepsi relationship building
The importance of Pepsi business relationship building.
This has resulted in a drastic shift in consumer power and has altered the selling process by placing a greater emphasis on both customer relationships and customer experience.
Most businesses do not have a clear understanding of what relationship building is and how to successfully put it into practice. Pepsi is not one of them. Let’s debunk one misconception right from the start:
Relationship building isn’t the opposite of traditional marketing, and it doesn’t exclude older channels (like email marketing and content marketing) in favor of solely using social media.
To clarify this important practice, today we’ll look at the most important recommendations in relationship building campaigns.
We’ll even give you the inside scoop from notable entrepreneurs and Pepsi on how relationships helped build the audiences that built their businesses.
Let’s get started.

 

What is the business relationship building?

With a focus on loyalty, retention and long-term relationships, the aptly named practice of “relationship marketing” is designed around developing strong connections with customers by directly providing them with information that is tailored to their needs, wants and interests.
As opposed to transactional marketing’s focus on direct sales, relationship marketing emphasizes increased word-of-mouth activity, repeat business and a willingness on the customer’s part to provide information to the organization.
And unlike “interruption” marketing, this process is started willingly via an opt-in by the customer.

 

the value add
The value-add.

Pepsi relationship building … the value add

But is this focus on creating a Pepsi relationship with customers worthwhile? As we previously discussed, the shocking truth of brand loyalty is that most customers do not want to be engaged with a business or brand; their priority is shared
The secret here is that the relationship marketing process has nothing to do with engagement and everything to do with being practically useful for both your business and customers.
According to a management study by Robin Buchanan and Crawford Gillies, the increased profitability associated with relationship building is the result of several factors:

 

Less “dating around”

Satisfied, long-term customers in your marketing funnel are statistically less likely to switch.
As a bonus, they tend to be less price-sensitive; experts say that customers who feel taken care of are less concerned about what they are paying.

 

Pepsi relationship building … avoid the cost of acquisition

The famous Bain & Company analysis that it is 6 to 7 times more expensive to acquire a new customer than to keep a current one is something that keeps marketers up at night.
But businesses with high rates of customer satisfaction needn’t worry about high churn rates.

 

It’s the foundation of the word of mouth

Strong relationships are essential to a high net promoter score.
In other words, the chance that a customer will happily refer your business to a friend.

 

Pepsi relationship building … your advocates are your rock

Regular customers tend to buy more often.
They are less expensive to maintain because of their familiarity with your business and the processes behind it.

Business Information: How to Completely Change Your Success Priorities

 

Expansion becomes easier

Longstanding customers are much more likely to purchase your ancillary products and embrace your new ventures (think of those folks you know who buy each new Apple gadget).

 

Pepsi relationship building builds customer trust

Most businesses today consider themselves to be trustworthy, and by yesterday’s standards, they are.
They post their prices and rates honestly, they try their best to maintain the quality and reliability of their service, they protect the security of their customers’ funds, and they do what they promise.
But even though they don’t lie or steal, the fact is that the vast majority of financial services companies still generate substantial profits by fooling customers, or by capitalizing on their mistakes, or by taking advantage of them when they simply aren’t paying attention.
That approach in today’s environment is a direct route to customer attrition. Retention and growth now entail acting in customers’ best interest.
Acting in the customer’s interest requires companies to balance the benefit of an immediate profit against the cost of earning respect and confidence of a customer—an asset that is, in the long term, far more valuable.
Financial services companies must become more trustable because as the rising power of customers exposes untrustable behavior the question of a company’s trustability will go to the heart of its value proposition.
Trustability will become an essential element of any bank’s customer service in the future in much the same way that having a website has become an essential element of customer service today.

 

For survival

To survive in this new, hyper-transparent world in which extreme trust is a prerequisite for business success, Pepsi has shown must pursue these basic courses of action:

Building Repeat Customers: 11 Easy Fixes for Customer Growth

 

Pepsi relationship building … good intentions

Having empathy for customers, and treating each one the way you would want to be treated if you were that customer, is the single most important element of trustability. Pepsi has this down pat.
To be trustable, you have to adopt a customer-centric philosophy, and then re-engineer your value proposition and customer experience from the standpoint of the customer.
This will have consequences for your operating policies, of course, but the eventual implications for your firm’s culture will be even more profound.
If your call center reps, sales, marketing, don’t believe you are a trustable company, then your customers won’t either.
 

Rethinking control

In the transparent future, Pepsi won’t be able to retain control over communications about their brand. The only thing you will control is how well your business processes protect your customers’ interests.
To make your command-and-control, hierarchical firm more trustable, you will have to give more authority to individual employees, empowering them to “sense and respond” in real time to customer issues.
And don’t be too afraid to allow your workers to show your company’s human side, including its vulnerability.
A little vulnerability will encourage customers to be empathetic to you, and empathy generates trust.
 

Pepsi relationship building … ask good questions

ask good questions
Ask good questions.
Many people think good listening means always letting someone finish every thought and nodding along.
Instead, active listening requires that you ask questions while you are listening. Sometimes this means interrupting – but this isn’t something to be afraid of.
Often the interruptions will lead to tangents that create more intersections for both of the people in a conversation.

 

Build community

One of the secrets of the e-social revolution is that people have an irresistible urge to share with others. They make their opinions known, they contribute ideas, they collaborate on things such as Wikipedia and open-source software.
Pepsi even finds that customers provide the best kind of customer service for other customers.
If you want to become more trustable, you have to tap this sharing instinct, first by sharing your honest counsel with customers.
Talk to them not just regarding how they can get more value from their financial products, but how they can better manage their resources, and how they can save and spend responsibly.
Pepsi facilitates customers collaborating with other customers, through online community platforms, social sharing sites, product reviews, and problem-solving customer forums. Wow, does that work well.

 

Pepsi relationship building shows competence

To be trustable not only must you intend to act in the customer’s best interest, but you also have to have the competence to act on that intention.
On a basic level, this means paying close attention to the quality of your product and service.
But as important, you should upgrade your data, analytics, and systems. Quantifying the financial benefits of long-term customer trust and confidence requires good analytics.
Customer lifetime values are not easy to compute, but in the financial services industry, more than in most other categories, the statistical data is available.
There is no shortage of analytical tools to make these calculations.
If you want your company to become more trustable, you’ll have to begin paying attention to the data and pushing the envelope on analysis.

 

Stimulate stories

Some questions lead to answers, and then there are questions that lead to stories. Here’s one way you might start a story seeking question, “What inspired you to …”
When people share stories, they go beyond feeling like they are being interrogated. They open up, and they connect.
The more stories you can hear, the more connection you’ll feel to everyone you speak to.

 

Make observations and draw assumptions

Consider starting questions with this phrase: “I noticed that you …” What happens when you are forced to think about this is that you start to consider what you know about someone before you meet them based on where you are, what they look like or what you know about them already.
One of the best conversations I had at an event recently was because I noticed that someone was using two different phones at the same time.
Asking why led to an amazing conversation about time optimization and technology.

 

 

The bottom line

 

For customers who do want a relationship with your brand, their concerns are primarily about how useful you prove yourself to be (outside of your product).
In a world of extreme trust, you always have to take a step back from whatever business policy you’re considering, whatever new idea you’re thinking about, and ask yourself:
“If this became public, would it be an embarrassment to us? Would we be proud of it?
Would any of our customers hold it against us?”
Because in the highly interactive, extremely transparent future everything you do, every policy you have, will become public.
Hidden fees won’t remain hidden, and bad intentions will be quickly exposed. If you want your financial services company to be genuinely trustable, then you have to have clean hands, not just a good alibi.

 

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Business collaborative innovation.
Need some help in building better customer trust from your customer engagement? Creative ideas to help grow your customer relationships?
 
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All you get is what you bring to the fight. And that fight gets better every day you learn and apply new ideas.
When things are not what you want them to be, what’s most important is your next step. Call today.
Test. Learn. Improve. Repeat.
Are you devoting enough energy to improving your continuous learning for yourself and your team?
 
Digital Spark Marketing will stretch your thinking and your ability to adapt to change.  We also provide some fun and inspiration along the way. Call us for a free quote today. You will be amazed at how reasonable we will be.
  
More reading on customer engagement from our library:
Whole Foods Customer Engagement Using Social Media
Is Employee Engagement the Backbone of the Publix Culture?
13 Employee Engagement Lessons From Best Employee Brands
Positive Attitude Is Everything for Customer Engagement
 
Mike Schoultz is a digital marketing and customer service expert. With 48 years of business experience, he consults on and writes about topics to help improve the performance of small business. Find him on G+, Facebook, Twitter, Digital Spark Marketing, Pinterest, and LinkedIn.

 

Leadership Qualities: The Go-Getter’s Guide to Lifelong Learning

Eisenhower certainly understood the concepts of the best leadership qualities and attributes, didn’t he? Spot on. I have been in leadership positions in the military and business world for forty years, and I often get asked what it takes to be an effective, influential leader. Dwight Eisenhower was only of many I studied over those many years.

Nothing really prepares you to be a leader. In most cases, you get the opportunity to lead by being good at something else. However, while being a strong performer gives you the credibility to lead, it says nothing about your ability to lead. Leadership is a skill in its own right and, for the most part, it’s one you learn on the job.

Leadership qualities
Leadership qualities.
Leadership is the art of getting someone else to do something you want to be done because he wants to do it.
–       Dwight Eisenhower
Being such a leader is a lifelong learning process. You are never done learning. Every great leader always looks for ways to improve their ability to improve their leadership qualities and attributes.
If you read ten books on leadership, you could easily build a checklist of 50 or more leadership qualities and attributes. But more is not necessarily better for the best checklist. The following leadership checklist represents my favorite 15 leadership attributes.
It represents those 15 leadership attributes that I would least like to be without:
  

Not about you

Many of us want to be effective leaders … ones that can make a difference. But that doesn’t happen by talking about it or self-marketing. It takes time to build connections, by taking a genuine interest in people. In true leadership situations, listening comes first.
Perhaps the worst personal trait I’ve personally observed is ego. We all have an ego, but the ego I’m talking about is the ‘super-ego’ that dominates.  I’ve found if a leader is really good at what they do, they won’t have to tell others about it.    

 

Humility

Leaders teach us “Don’t think too highly of yourself.” How can you improve? We are not perfect. Your success is because of many team members’ contributions.
How can we up our leadership game?

  

Passion

You only live once. Give it all you got. Be the best so no competitor can keep up. Know your passion and live it. Let it drive you to be the best in your niche.
  
Team first
Team first.

Leadership qualities … team first

Do what it takes to make your team more effective and productive. Make each team member focus on putting the team before themselves.
Remember, whatever your role is, be a servant to the team and make your teammates better.

  

Speak appreciation

Gratitude must be a constant drumbeat of your dialogue. Infuse your conversations with an appreciation of your team’s acumen and determination to improve. Learn to be thankful certainly when there’s great success, but also be thankful for what you’ve learned through the hard times because there’s great wisdom in those experiences.
After you have been knocked down, gain your composure, reflect on why this occurred and make changes.

Push people

A good leader makes sure their team members never stop looking bad until eventually, they look good because they have improved.
Push them to be the best they can be. Be a great motivator.

  

Provide structure but encourage improvisation

Provide structure to the team but always encourage everyone to improvise. Inspire them could not do alone.
Show them by example and let other teammates help them do it; that builds a bond that lasts forever.

 

 Build relationships and culture

Constantly build relationships with and between the team. It is the foundation of the culture you want to develop. Remember this: Five percent of what we do is to be sure we perform.
The other ninety-five percent is to create a culture that leads to the team effort.

 

 Continuous improvement and learning

If you’re not doing, you’re not learning.   Everybody makes mistakes.  It’s what you do with them that counts.

  

Give people opportunity to input

It has to be the team’s game plan, not just the leader’s plan. Ensure you are giving everyone an opportunity for inputs and listen carefully. Do what you can to build a team plan.

 

 Adapt your leadership to team

Not all teams are the same, and each requires and responds best to its leadership qualities. Focus on becoming a good reader of the team and adapt your leadership style to what is needed.

 

Leadership qualities list
Leadership qualities list.

Develop other leaders

Leaders are measured not just on what they achieve personally but also on what the people they mentored go on to do as leaders in their right.
Take pride in people you have developed. It is a big ‘pick-me-upper’ if you let it.
 

Agree to disagree, but don’t be disagreeable 

It is all about maintaining a positive attitude all the time, even when times are tough. People can agree to disagree, but need to avoid being disagreeable at all costs.

Character over reputation

Your reputation will vary.  It’s your character that counts, and it’s what you can control.  Encourage everyone to make an effort to do the best of which you’re capable and try to improve each situation that exists.
Your reputation is what you are perceived to be, and your character is what you are. The character is much more important than what you are perceived to be, isn’t it? It is for me.

  

Balance is everything

Keep this quality near the top of your leadership priorities. Preach it and live it.
Balance is everything. Be balanced … controlled action in all areas of life.

 

Don’t let failure be fatal

Keep going.  Don’t let setbacks stop you.  Carry your lessons forward, and change your approach as required.  Don’t fear change … it is a fact of life.
Failure is not fatal, but often a failure to change can be.

Key takeaways

The moral of this story is company culture has a great influence on leadership development. If these different thoughts are possessed by your current leadership team or your emerging leaders, you will be in a good position for the road ahead.
Which of these leadership thoughts stand out to you? Do you have any other thoughts of effective leaders worthy of mention? Leave a comment and share your insights with others…
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 More leadership material from Digital Spark Marketing’s Library:
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Success Enablers of Highly Creative Leaders
Secrets to Becoming a Remarkably Mindful Leader
Leadership Characteristics That Improve Influence
 
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People Management: The Best Tips and Hacks for Leaders

Ever wondered how the best leaders handle being at the top so effortlessly? The truth is, these highly successful people do stumble, worry, and doubt themselves, just like the rest of us. But they are very good at mastering the way they are perceived. The higher you get in a company, the less time you’ll spend on executing tasks and managing projects and instead you’ll be focusing on people management.
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People management.
Keep learning: 10 Positive Thinking Ideas from Peers and Mentors
As a leader, you must understand that your success depends on the success of your team. Note that people management skills will be absolutely critical.
My career spanned 40 years as a manager in large organizations before I transitioned into consulting.
In those years I was a manager of people in 37 of those years. 37 years of continuous learning on leadership and management.
The essence of a leader comes down to the fundamental values of the individual.
What behavior are you role modeling? How do you treat your team members?
Let’s examine these game-changing leadership behaviors for managing people that can help in the way you are perceived:

 

Get into action

It is critical that you learn the importance of the start, whatever you have been postponing.
Just do it, as Nike likes to tell its customers and potential customers. If you wait for the perfect time to start, it will never happen, and you will have accomplished nothing.
Great leaders don’t work in existing systems. They change the systems to give them what they want.
They don’t delay the start. They come up with new options for jobs, projects, and professional development that their bosses hadn’t even thought of.
They see an opportunity coming their way before most of the rest of us have even looked up from our laptops. They don’t hesitate to seize the initiative, do they?

Learn from competitors

Observing and learning from those around you makes you stronger, better. Never fail to see its value.
Your peers, as well as competitors, can usually teach you more than your friends. Let them. Learn from them.
To be a great leader, you need to have a strong will and an even stronger stomach. You need to remind yourself that your job isn’t to make everyone happy, but rather to improve the organization as a whole.
Good leaders are constantly trying to improve, surround themselves with the ablest people they can find.
They look squarely at their mistakes and deficiencies, and they ask frankly what skills they and the company will need in the future.
And because of this, they can move forward with confidence that’s grounded in the facts, not built on fantasies about their talent.

People management … ask for help

Never, ever, hesitate to ask for help in anything you are doing. You can’t possibly know and keep up with everything.
Ask, listen well, and learn.

Keep things in perspective

Find balance in everything you do in life.

A man should never neglect family for business

Having work-life balance is important. Never be so consumed in business activities that you neglect the individuals whom you need the most.
But aside from this, great leaders know they need a life so that they’ll learn more about other people, gain perspective, and grow their knowledge.
It’s easy to fall into the idea that our work is all that matters. You are not the center of all things important.
The lives of others don’t revolve around you. Don’t act as they do.

Persistence

Persistence is key. Always keep up the effort as you will never know how close to success you may be.
Think about your energy. It’s not just about what you like best, but about what feeds you and what depletes you. And who.
Do what you can to increase the good stuff and decrease the bad. You just need to realize you have the power to accomplish it. Much more than you may have imagined.
Eliminate whatever it is in your life that’s draining you, and replace it with something that inspires you. This will help your persistence.
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How to manage staff effectively.

No fear of failure

No matter how confident someone may seem, everyone is afraid of failing. All of us are afraid of screwing up or afraid of looking stupid.
But great leaders know that everyone they interact with is also afraid.
These people are successful because they act in the face of fear. They go after what they believe, seek change and, ultimately, make a difference.
They also believe they can take a risk because even if they fail, they’ll be able to learn from it and overcome it.
Their fear doesn’t hold them back. Instead, it springs them into action, because they know not stretching themselves is worse than failing.
Dreams always follow those who dare to fail, get up, and reflect and learn from the experience

Wear your passion

Always wear your passion in what you are doing. To do that, you must find those things that you love.
Follow the passion; it is what gives you the strength to overcome the obstacles to everyday tasks. Passion is power … it is what keeps you going when everyone else gets tired and gives up.

Coordinating with others … continuous improvement

Always work hard at being a little better than you were the day before. Continuous learning is one of the most important attributes in the work and personal environment.
Great leaders know that every step they take, every decision they make, matters in the end.
They know they must strategize carefully, and then act decisively. They know they must think ahead — not just to their next step — but to the many steps after it.
Practice these leadership behaviors often and think ahead for your greatest leadership advantages.

Be nice

This should be pretty obvious, but the first principle when working in a team is to be nice. People don’t want to work with nasty or aggressive people, and such behavior will only hamper any collaboration.
Beyond a basic level of decency, you should also avoid a robotic focus on work and remember that your team is made up of human beings.
Ask them how they’re doing before launching into the tasks you need them to do.
Take a moment to ask about their weekend, show that you’ve got good manners and say please and thank you!

Show them you care

Still on the human being topic, leading a team means showing that you care about them as individuals.
So check in to see how they feel if they’re off sick, bring them a cupcake on their birthday, buy them a coffee from time to time.
These little gestures will demonstrate that you don’t just think of them as cogs in the machine and will make sure to keep spirits up. This is true especially when workload is heavy, or morale is low.

Be fair

Being fair to your team members means valuing each of their contributions, giving each of them the attention that they need, giving credit where credit is due.
It also means taking due responsibility for work on your side, and role modeling the behavior that you expect from your team.
After all, you can’t expect them to be careful with the company’s money if you’re seen to be frittering away the budget.

Focus on their growth

As a people manager, you are not just responsible for making sure that the work gets done.
You are responsible for helping each reach their full potential by getting the feedback and coaching they need, learning new skills, and finding the right assignment.
This also requires focusing on your performance so be sure to ask for feedback also from them.
Remember to keep growing as a manager by attending training sessions and getting coaching yourself.

Support them externally

Trust and solidarity are fundamental values when working in a team and sticking up for each other.
When the going gets tough it will help to maintain cohesion. Your team needs to know that you’re not going to throw them under the bus if they make a mistake.
You might need to talk to the individual who has made that mistake. But remember not to do it in front of clients, agencies or colleagues outside of your immediate team.

Engage them in your vision

People need to know what they are working towards, the bigger picture of what you’re trying to achieve. Sharing your broader vision will help them to understand the role they have to play and keep them engaged.
This will become all the more important as you grow more senior in your role. You can start even with a small project.
What will be the impact if you’re successful? Is there a metaphor or image that you can share that will capture the essence of what you’re trying to achieve?
Get your team energized and excited about the bigger goal that lies ahead.

 

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Continuous improvement.

Be a good coach

Provide specific, constructive feedback, balancing the negative and the positive.
Have regular one-on-ones, presenting solutions to problems tailored to your employees’ specific strengths.

Empower your team and don’t micromanage

Balance is giving freedom to your employees, while still being available for advice. Make “stretch” assignments to help the team tackle big problems.

Express interest in team members’ success and personal well-being

Get to know your employees as people, with lives outside of work. Make new members of your team feel welcome and help ease their transition.

Don’t be a sissy. Be productive and results-oriented

Focus on what employees want the team to achieve and how they can help achieve it. Help the team prioritize work and use seniority to remove roadblocks.

Be a good communicator and listen to your team

Communication is two-way: you both listen and share information. Hold all-hands meetings and be straightforward about the messages and goals of the team.
Help the team connect the dots. Encourage open dialogue and listen to the issues and concerns of your employees.

Help your employees with career development

Identifying and exploring such opportunities with your team presents an opportunity to become the kind of leader who truly changes lives.

Have a clear vision and strategy for the team

Even in the midst of turmoil, keep the team focused on goals and strategy. Involve the team in setting and evolving the team’s vision and making progress toward it.
What to learn now: How to Create Honest Employee Trust and Empowerment

 

Have key technical skills so you can help advise the team

Roll up your sleeves and conduct work side-by-side with the team, when needed. Understand the specific challenges of the work.

 

The bottom line

The examples of people management are all around us. All we have to do is be open minded in how we look and how we apply the best lessons learned.
Now it’s your turn. What are the brand marketing ideas you have seen lately?

 

SMASHING BRAND IMAGE
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Mike Schoultz is the founder of Digital Spark Marketing, a digital marketing and customer service agency. With 40 years of business experience, he writes about topics to help improve the performance of small business. Find him on G+FacebookTwitter, and LinkedIn.
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Remarkable Lessons in Motivation Steve Jobs Taught Me
How to Create Honest Employee Trust and Empowerment
The Story and Zen of Getting Things Done
 
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Disney’s WOW Customer Experiences: 7 Ways You Apply the Secrets

Have you been to a Disney resort park? How about a visit to Disney World in Florida? With most of our family living 50 miles away, we often felt like tour guides. Not a bad thing though. Lots of businesses apply Disney’s WOW customer experiences and operations. We use many of them with our clients. They can be a real difference maker because feelings have a critical role in the way customers are influenced.
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Employ Disneys wow customer experiences.
Disney’s ability to “wow” its fans and captivate customers for decades is explored in depth in  Be Our Guest: Perfecting the Art of Customer Service, a veritable handbook for Disney magic. In this book author Ted Kinni reveals the secrets to delivering magic to your customers the Walt Disney way. Lots businesses can learn from hi insights.
Related: Should a Business Send Customers to Competitors?
Disney’s success stems from company-wide best practices including leadership excellence, people management, quality service, brand loyalty and creativity and innovation, all of which are highlighted in Be Our Guest. It boasts fresh updates and stories that highlight the past decade of Disney customer service. The Disney Magic, as you’ll read in Be Our Guest, is part art and part science — and Kinni details how the company approaches continuously raising the bar at every customer touchpoint.

Here is an excellent short video on a restaurant in Disney World.

Of all the facts featured within, perhaps the most surprising is the 70% return rate of first time Disney visitors.
It’s tough to overstate just how impressive that is, especially for a theme park. It’s loyalty on a whole other level.
Below, I’ll highlight some interesting and unique takeaways that are shared in Be Our Guest.
 

It is all about the process

Perhaps the most unexpected finding when evaluating Disney’s penchant for “magic” is the focus on process—the drive and ability to continuously optimize something that is working very well.
Walt Disney was obsessed with continuous improvement and process. He knew that the deliverance of a magical experience each and every time is dependent on developing processes that are easy for employees to use.
Walt viewed his theme parks almost as “factories” that produced delight and entertainment. His belief was that the backbone of Quality Service was built on designing perfect processes and then repeating them at scale.
Disney has held true to these beliefs with their close attention to detail in constantly improving their processes. They always sweat the small stuff. And that concept is a key to be the best for most businesses. But I would add to include the ability for your staff to improvise on their own … add delegation for some flexibility.
Some awesome examples include:

Disneys WOW customer experiences … fulfilling special needs

Disney cast members found that disabled guests were often frustrated with parks because they had to constantly remind staff they were disabled, and they wanted to let staff know discretely. Disney created Special Assistance passes and provided their cast with a wide variety of training so that they were able to identify and fulfill the needs of disabled guests without invasive questions.

 

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Are you making things positive?

Making things positive

Despite the efforts made to inform customers of height limits, often a young child will wait with a parent to go on a ride, only to find out he or she isn’t tall enough. Disney noticed that this was a major complaint from parents and, more importantly, ruined the experience. They have given staff permission to hand out a special pass when this happens that allows the child to skip to the front of the line on his or her next ride. Something to take the place of the disappointment.

Ending on a WOW

What better way to end a magic experience than with a smooth exit? Unfortunately, Disney found many guests had problems finding their cars when leaving on trams. Tram drivers now keep a simple list of what rows they work each morning, which is distributed to team members at the end of the day. This allows guests to simply denote the time they arrived, and the tram drivers will know what location the guest parked in. A huge win for ending the day without hassle.
Walt seemed to perfect these techniques by observing each and every detail. He didn’t just want Disney Parks to be better—he wanted them to be awesome.

 

 Away from the desk

In Disneyland’s early years, when a suggestion came about to build an administration building for the management at Disneyland, Walt opposed the idea vehemently.
“I don’t want you guys sitting behind desks. I want you out in the park, watching what people are doing and finding out how you can make the place more enjoyable for them.” An early example of ‘walk around management’, yes?
Here is a good example: when customer researchers at Disney found that guests greatly desired more access with characters—and also highlighted the difficulty of navigating the crowds that formed around characters like Minnie Mouse—cast and management were immediately informed of their grievances.
The two teams worked together to make fixes right away: characters were brought into specific areas so that they could be better managed, fixed greeting locations were selected and broadcasted throughout the park with signs and pamphlets, and the CHIP (Character Hotline and Information Program) was created, resulting in a phone number that any cast member can call to find out where certain characters are.
 

 Disneys WOW customer experiences … continuous improvement

Walt was a stickler for the experiences at his park. His obsession with the park stemmed from the fact that he saw it as a forever incomplete product which could always be improved.
The lengths he would go to improve it is something of legend:
Walt would wear old clothes and a straw farmer’s hat and tour the park incognito. Dick Nunis, who was at the time a supervisor in Frontierland, remembers being tracked down by Walt during one of these visits.
Walt had ridden the Jungle Boat attraction and had timed the cruise. The boat’s operator had rushed the ride, which had ended in four and a half minutes instead of the full seven it should have taken.
Dick and Walt took the ride together and discussed the proper timing. The boat pilots used stopwatches to learn the perfect speed. Weeks went by until one day Walt returned. He rode the Jungle Boats four times with different pilots.
In the end, he said nothing, just gave Dick a “Good show!” thumbs-up and continued on his way.
 
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Are you show ready?

Show ready

Each customer facing employee is expected to be ‘show ready’ whenever they are on stage. Everyone has a part to play as a component of the show. On stage, the show is on … everyone follows costume and customer interface guidelines.  Breaks and relaxing are ONLY allowed in areas unavailable to guests.
Disney certainly knows all there is to know about customer immersion and customer experience, don’t they? It’s a culture handed down by Walt himself.

The bottom line

Exceeding customer expectations is the key to brand differentiation and customer loyalty in every  kind of business. Every customer arrives with a set of expectations. If that set of expectations isn’t satisfied, that customer isn’t going to come back.
But that doesn’t mean the opposite is true: Customers who are satisfied might or might not come back. The goal of service should be exceeding guest expectations instead of simply satisfying them.
EMPLOY CUSTOMER EXPERIENCE
Employ customer experiences.
Companies that are proactively managing all elements of their customer experiences are most successful in achieving customer loyalty.
What can your business apply from Disney operations that would improve your customer experience?
 Please share a story about a creative customer experience design strategy with this community.
Remember, customer create the most value for you … when you create the most value for them.
Need some help in building better customer trust from your customer experiences?  Creative ideas to help grow your customer relationships?
    
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More reading on customer experience from our Library:
Customer Orientation … the Worst Customer Experience Mistakes
Random Acts of Kindness for Customer Experience Improvements
10 Ways to Employ Customer Experience for Influence
Mike Schoultz is a digital marketing and customer service expert. With 48 years of business experience, he consults on and writes about topics to help improve the performance of small business. Find him on FacebookTwitterQuoraDigital Spark Marketing, and LinkedIn.